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oldgirl
03-08-2007, 08:11 AM
Today at around 11.30am, our 14 year old Tobie passed away quietly, with me watching over her.
During the past months, she has been "up and down" with breathing problems, but has always pulled through. This time, however, she had also been sick and I was not so happy with her. A visit to the vet on Tuesday 6th March allowed her to have an injection, and I gave her the extra drops by beak on Wednesday. THis morning, however, she was too weak, and as I opened the cage, she came out onto my jumper-sleeve.
From here, it was impossible to encourage her to move off, so that I could get her drops and administer them.....so I allowed her to rest for almost two hours, on my sleeve. She just curled down like a little chick and did a few cheeps. Gradually she leaned over and rested on her side, and I could see that her feet were very relaxed and failing to grip.
She did several stretches, and closed her eyes, then gradually fell into a gentle sleep; by 11.30 she had stopped breathing. So it was all very peaceful.

Fourteen years ago we bought her as a baby, about a few months old, along with another companion bird. They shared a cage together till 1997, when the male budgie mysteriously and suddenly died. Since then she has lived on her own, but has displayed, at all times, a real cheeky character; stubborn, pecky and awkward at many times, but that was just her. My son has grown up with her (he's 18 this year) and she has always been there for him. I don't go to work, so I have had her with me virtually the whole day, every day.
We've lost two budgies before, but never had one as long as fourteen years, so it is going to be extremely hard to get over saying goodnight to an empty cage. We will move her cage eventually....but not yet. The time will present itself during the coming few weeks, but our sideboard will never look the same without a cage on it.
We dont plan to have another bird at this time; life is gradually taking a new direction for us and many changes are due for us over the next few years; but maybe Tobie herself will show us if the time is right to have another one.
Thanks for reading. Tobie's picture was in the gallery a few months back, rather fluffed up because she was unwell at that time.

Marsheliah
03-08-2007, 08:32 AM
I'm so sorry. She lived a good life.

softie
03-08-2007, 10:13 AM
oldgirl,

I was truly touched with your story of Tobie. Thank you for sharing her with us. I am deeply saddened to hear that after such a long friendship, she has decided to go, but I am glad she has went peacefully and was in the arms of someone she loved.

I can't imagine how it feels to lose a friend that has been with you for so long, but I'm sure that you as well as Tobie, treasure the long years.

My condolences to you and I know Tobie will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace sweety.

Aaralyn

clifff123
03-08-2007, 10:19 AM
I couldn't have said it any better than sofie did.
So sorry for your loss, 14 years is a long time to bond with a budgie.
RIP Tobie

pal0m1n0
03-08-2007, 10:54 AM
That was a beautiful, sad and touching story. My deepest condolences.

BUUZBEE
03-08-2007, 01:14 PM
what a special Tobie you had. A long wonderful life, and a nice way to go, so peacefully. Big hugs to you, and rip Tobie. I agree with cliff, Softie said it all so well!

Adottybird
03-08-2007, 02:37 PM
What goodness and kindness you have shown us! I am so very sorry for your lost of a long time member of the family. I sure when the time is right you might allow another budgie to steel your heart and become a member of your family. The world would be a great place with more budgie owners like you.

Zazu_Love
03-08-2007, 05:37 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Tobie sounds like a very special bird and you must love her a lot to have kept her chirping for 14 years. I'm sure she was glad that she could spend her last moments with you. Remember all of the special memories you and your family have with her.

I tried looking for the picture of her, but I couldn't find it. I'm sure she was very lovely.

I hope you find peace in this sad time.

Genevieve
03-08-2007, 05:42 PM
Im very sorry for your loss, that was a beautiful story and made me get teary but smile too, because she sounded like she had a beautiful life and was a very lucky bird to have you in her life, my love to you and your family, Gen xoxox

Meghanxx4
03-08-2007, 06:08 PM
I am SO sorrey for you loss, RIP Toby.

cloggy
03-08-2007, 06:17 PM
so sorry for your loss,rip tobie. i realy cannot think of what to say, i am lost for words.

Budgiekin
03-08-2007, 07:29 PM
Oh my. I am so sorry to hear about your precious Tobie. What a companion this little feathered friend was over the last 14 years! May you cherish the fond memories of Tobie for years to come. RIP Tobie.

Nikoletta
03-09-2007, 04:28 AM
Oldgirl, I am sure Tobie was an excellent budgie and also very lucky because she lived for 14 years with a great mama and she died peacefuly. It's always sad to lose a friend, and especially after so many years, but think she died in her sleep and now she's happy and free.
RIP Tobie..

Nancy
03-09-2007, 09:19 AM
Your memorial of Tobie was beautiful and brought tears to my eyes. 14 yrs. is a long time to have a budgie. I am sending positive thoughts your way.

Txbirdfriend
03-09-2007, 10:11 AM
14 years. How blessed you, your family, and Tobie were. Thank you for sharing and letting us celebrate her life with you. There are people who don't get the care and love Tobie did. She was a lucky bird and your family was lucky too. Wishing you the fondest memories when you think of your loved pet.

oldgirl
03-09-2007, 04:02 PM
We buried her this afternoon, by a wisteria arch, and close to where we sit out in the summer. I have now put a photo on our sideboard, where the cage sits. Thank you everyone for your replies. My signature is Tobie a few months ago; a little ruffled and not looking quite so well, but still beady-eyed. Yes, lots of memories that will last forever until we meet again. I will look in on the forum from time to time and enjoy your loved ones too.

oldgirl
03-09-2007, 04:06 PM
oh dear, the pic didnt work.......try again.

keet_tweet4
03-09-2007, 09:25 PM
Tobie was a beautiful bird that had a wonderful life with you. RIP Tobie. :(

lilifield
03-11-2007, 07:41 PM
I'm really sorry.

country_dreams
03-16-2007, 08:29 PM
I'm so sorry. didn't know the could live THAT long though.

airwave
03-17-2007, 04:09 PM
I'm so sorry for your lose. But I'm glad she died peacefully. :( She sounds like an amazing budgie...and friend.